Living in a Jar?

Living in a Jar? …What does it mean? 

I think the meaning can be more than one thing….let us briefly explore the one option...todays blog …Option 1 (which by the way… also a bad option). You live in constant anger and frustration getting suffocated by things around you!

Sorry, did I fail to mention that none of the explanations of “Living in a Jar” radiates rays of pure joy & pink fuzzy bunnies?! My bad….

But, that is sort of the idea…no wait………Not sort of the idea, it is the bad getting sick to the pit of your stomach idea of being in a Jar…it is just as the word describes! Because How would you like it if you were to be ACTUALLY “Living in a Jar”? Not so much I take it? Musty air, stinky farts, your own morning breath hanging in the air…whaaa, not so much!

So if we wouldn’t even dream of doing something like this because it is insane, and you would then be better suited to be living in an insane asylum than to be “Living in a Jar”….if it is sooooooooo crazy stupid idea…it really is by the way…Why then do we choose to live like this emotionally!!! Isnt this stupid, insane and down right crazy too??

“No but it is not the same thing as …actually living in a Jar”…well duh…of course not!

But really you might as well pack your cable tv, small shoe collection and even smaller furniture and move into your “Jar”! Because if you feel suffocated by Life and the smallest things around you…you can not cope with work stress, kids, your partner, people in general, traffic and the list goes on… you are indeed already living in a jar of your own my friend and loving it…yes you are…no…you are! You are also living amongst things which happened in your past hanging around, floating right in front of you, attached to your emotions, stinking up the place! The space you call Living!

“…yes you are…”

Then ask yourself…Self…Why am I still living like this? Why am I punishing myself like this and those around me…even and especially those I love?

So why do you? Why haven’t you sorted yourself out??

“I cannot do it alone…I cannot figure it out!”

Right you are! If you think you can do it by yourself (which most of us do think) best you don’t read my blog any further from now on because it seems that you have everything under control and don’t NEED anybody to tell you how to live your life or how to “fix” your life!

“This is for losers and weaklings…”

That is your own ego speaking…listen here…it is weaklings and losers who do not want to ask for help, who are too proud to ask for assistance…it takes a real strong super human being to ask for help or assistance, because that person will also be able to help others in the future! Weaklings can not help others if they can not even help themselves!

So how do we deal with this? How do we cope with this? How do we get rid of this?

It is fairly easy…I bet you didn’t know…well, you didn’t, or else I suppose you wouldn’t have experienced these feelings?? Would you have?? The answer is NO!!

Well…this is just the beginning to a better and more controlled and in-control you!

Some of the answers will be published in my next blog post…coming soon!

From me to you: FEAR NO EVIL ! DO NOT LET FEAR CONTROL YOU!